Touch as a reward for dogs: when, how and why

Introduction


You love your dog and want to show him how much you appreciate him and how proud you are of his progress. Touching is a natural and intuitive way of expressing affection and praise. But have you ever wondered whether your dog actually perceives this touch as a reward? In this blog article, we want to look at the topic of "touch as a reward for dogs" and show you when, how and why touch can be a reward for your four-legged friend - or not.

Understanding dog communication

To summarise, the dominance theory in dog training is historically conditioned and based on observations of wolf packs. Although the theory was also used during the Second World War and in the context of National Socialism, it is not exclusively linked to this era or ideology. Today, the understanding of dog training has changed and non-violent methods are increasingly popular.


Body language and communication 

in dogs

To better understand the importance of touch in the human-dog relationship, it is important to develop a basic understanding of dog communication. Dogs communicate mainly through body language and, to a lesser extent, vocalisations. They express their emotions, needs and intentions through a variety of signals, such as tail movements, ear position, body posture, facial expressions and movements. Depending on the breed, these forms of communication are different and can be interpreted differently. 

As a dog owner, it is your job to recognise these signals from your dog individually and interpret them correctly in order to better respond to your dog's needs and wishes. Careful observation of your dog's body language will help you to find out whether he perceives a touch as a reward or as unpleasant. To better understand your dog's signs of stress and relaxation, you can read our blog on stress in dogs or learn to better read your dog's appeasement signals.

The role of touch in dog communication

While touch plays a central role in communication for us humans, it has a less important function for dogs. Dogs also use touch to communicate with each other, but to a lesser extent than body language. Gentle licking and mutual body hygiene correspond to what we understand as physical affection, but they occur much less frequently than other forms of communication. Touch can have different meanings for dogs depending on the situation and context - from affection and social contact to dominance or aggression.

It's important to note that dogs are generally more sensitive to touch than humans. They may find touch pleasant when it comes from a familiar person in a relaxed situation. Touch from the same familiar person in a different situation, such as on a walk, may be unpleasant and unwanted for the dog. Unexpected or unwanted touch can be stressful or unpleasant for dogs, so it's crucial to consider your dog's individual likes and dislikes and pay attention to their signals before using touch as a reward. 

When is a touch a reward for the dog?

Positive associations and trust 


Eine Berührung kann für den Hund eine Belohnung sein, wenn sie positive Assoziationen hervorruft und in einer entspannten, stressfreien Umgebung stattfindet. Wenn dein Hund Vertrauen zu dir hat und sich wohlfühlt, kann eine liebevolle Berührung seine Bindung zu dir stärken. In der Regel finden diese Formen der Berührung Zuhause statt. Berührungen können besonders belohnend sein, wenn dein Hund entspannt ist und seine Umgebung als sicher empfindet. Das kann zum Beispiel der Fall sein, wenn ihr gemeinsam auf dem Sofa liegt oder in einer ruhigen Umgebung spazieren geht. Kuschelzeiten oder Kontaktliegen mit Berührung mögen Hunde, weil das Bindungshormon Oxytocin dabei ausgeschüttet wird. Oxytocin ist nicht nur bindungsfördernd, sondern auch Stress-reduzierend. Draussen hingegen empfindet fast kein Hund, Berührung und Streicheleinheiten als belohnend oder angenehm. Das liegt daran, dass draussen die allgemeine Erregung des Hundes höher ist und die Berührung als störend oder gar aufdringlich vom Hun

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Dog enjoys human touch

Individual differences in dogs

Every dog is an individual with their own likes and dislikes. Some dogs enjoy being touched more than others and find it particularly rewarding. Pay attention to your dog's individual preferences and adjust your touches accordingly. For example, some dogs like to be petted on the belly, while others prefer to be petted on the head or behind the ears. Every dog has individual preferences, but there are some general areas where dogs often like to be petted and others that are less preferred or even considered unpleasant.


Areas where dogs often like to be stroked:

  1. Neck and chest: Many dogs enjoy being stroked in the neck and chest area, as these areas are often easily accessible and appear less threatening than the head, for example.
  2. Poop and base of tail: Some dogs like to be scratched at the base of the tail, as this is a hard-to-reach area for them and the scratching can be pleasant.
  3. Behind the ears: The ears are a sensitive area for many dogs, but scratching the base of the ears or behind the dogs is comfortable for them, but be careful not to reach too hard or deep into the ears to avoid injury.
  4. Sides and back: The sides and back are also favourite areas for stroking for many dogs, as they are easy to reach and less sensitive.

Areas that dogs do not like to be stroked or that can be perceived as unpleasant:

  1. Head and muzzle: The most common mistake is probably petting directly on the head. Some dogs do not like having their head or muzzle touched directly, as this can be perceived as threatening or dominant. In such cases, it can be helpful to position your hand to the side or below the head.
  2. Paws: The paws are sensitive and vulnerable parts of the body, which is why many dogs do not like being touched there. Some dogs can even react aggressively if you touch their paws.
  3. Belly: Although many dogs enjoy being scratched on the belly while lying on their back, this posture can also be a gesture of submission for some dogs. In such cases, they may feel vulnerable and therefore uncomfortable when touched on the belly. If a dog offers you the belly area voluntarily, you can gently scratch it on the belly. 

When is a touch not a reward for the dog?

In stressful situations

Touching may not be a reward for your dog in stressful situations. Examples of such situations are noisy environments, strange places or in the presence of other dogs or people that may be distressing for your dog. In these cases, touching may actually increase the stress for your dog instead of calming him down.

  • Noisy environments: Noise can be very stressful for dogs, especially if they are sensitive to noise. This can be the case with fireworks, thunderstorms or construction noise, for example. In these situations, touching your dog as a reward may not do what it should and may further unsettle your dog instead of calming him down. Instead, try to offer him a quiet place to retreat to and wait patiently for the noise to subside. 

  • Unfamiliar places: New places can be scary for dogs, especially if they have a lot of unfamiliar smells, sounds or people. In these situations, it's important to give your dog time and space to get used to the new environment. Touching him at this moment could overwhelm him. Instead, give him the opportunity to explore the environment and adapt at his own pace.

  • Around other dogs or people: Some dogs feel uncomfortable around other dogs or unfamiliar people. In these situations, touching your dog can further stress him as he may feel cornered. Instead of touching him, give him enough space. 

  • Vet visits: Vet visits can be stressful for many dogs. In this situation, touching your dog can actually increase their stress, especially if it's during an examination or treatment. Be sure to support your dog during the vet visit by making them feel safe and calm, but refrain from unnecessary touching that could further unsettle them.

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Unintentional touching of the dog

In case of pain or discomfort

If your dog is in pain or uncomfortable, touching him may be uncomfortable and not a reward. Here are some points to keep in mind:

  • Injuries: If your dog has an obvious injury, such as a wound, cut or bruise, avoid touching the affected area unnecessarily so as not to interfere with healing and cause your dog additional pain. Instead, give your dog space and time to heal and consult a veterinarian to ensure they receive the proper treatment.

  • Skin irritations: Skin irritations, such as allergies, eczema or parasite infestations, can be very uncomfortable for your dog. In such cases, touching them can further aggravate the irritation and cause additional stress. Be careful not to touch the affected areas and, if necessary, seek veterinary help to treat the cause of the skin irritation.

  • Joint conditions: Dogs, especially older or larger breeds, can suffer from joint conditions such as osteoarthritis that cause pain and discomfort. Be careful not to touch or apply pressure to the affected joints as this can increase the pain. Instead, support your dog by providing a comfortable place to lie and catering to their needs.

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Unintentional touching of the dog

With activity

Der wohl häufigste Fehler, den wir im Hundetraining erleben, ist es, wenn Hunde draussen für oder während einer Aktivität durch Streicheln belohnt werden. Fast kein – aber wirklich kein – Hund, den wir erleben durften, hat Berührung während des Trainings als positiv empfunden. Hunde mögen es während einer aktiven Phase, wie beim Rückruf oder der Leinenführigkeit, nicht immer, berührt zu werden, da dies aus verschiedenen Gründen störend oder unangenehm für sie sein kann. Dabei spielt die Unterbrechung der Bewegung eine grosse Rolle. Während der Rückrufphase sind Hunde in der Regel aktiv und konzentrieren sich auf ihre Umgebung sowie auf ihre Bewegung. Eine plötzliche Berührung kann diese Aktivität unterbrechen, was für den Hund irritierend sein kann. Hunde haben ein natürliches Bedürfnis, sich frei zu bewegen, und eine unerwartete Berührung kann dieses Bedürfnis beeinträchtigen. Wenn der Hund auf eine bestimmte Aufgabe oder Anweisung konzentriert ist, kann die Berührung seine Konz

Another important aspect is the insecurity that dogs can feel when they are touched during an active phase. Some dogs can find a touch during an active phase unexpected or unpleasant, especially if they do not feel safe or cannot anticipate the touch. 

Finally, stress or overstimulation can play a role when a dog is touched during an active phase such as recall. If a dog is already excited or stressed, additional touch can exacerbate its stress response or lead to overstimulation. 

To avoid disturbing or worrying your dog during an active phase, such as recall, it is advisable to refrain from touching him unless it is necessary or desired by the dog. Pay attention to your dog's body language and signals to determine whether or not he is open to being touched in this situation.


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Unintentional touching of the dog

Appeasement signals

Calming signals are behaviours that dogs use to reduce stress, avoid or de-escalate conflict, and create a relaxed atmosphere. These signals can occur in communication with other dogs as well as with humans. Here are some common calming signals that dogs show during touches they don't want: 

  • Yawning: A dog may yawn to calm itself or others when it senses stress or discomfort.
  • Muzzle licking or lip licking: Licking the muzzle is usually referred to as licking intention. Dogs lick their muzzle or lips to relieve stress and create a relaxed environment.
  • Averting or avoiding eye contact: A dog can avert its gaze or avoid eye contact to prevent conflict and signal relaxation.
  • Move slowly or freeze: Slow movements or a sudden freeze can be used as an appeasement signal to reduce tension and create a peaceful atmosphere.
  • Calming sniffing: Dogs may suddenly start sniffing the ground intensively to relieve stress.
  • Turn head away: A dog can turn its head away to de-escalate and avoid contact.  
  • Paw lift: Some dogs lift one front paw.

How do you effectively use touch as a reward?

Touch can be an effective reward for your dog or actively contribute to relaxation, as with the Relaxation gripIt's important to be sensitive to your dog's needs and preferences to create a positive experience. Here are some tips on how to use touch as an effective reward:

  1. Find out what kind of touch your dog prefers: Every dog is individual and has different preferences when it comes to touch. Observe your dog closely and find out what kind of touch he finds pleasant. This could be petting, scratching or gentle massaging, for example. 

  2. Consider the right time: Choose the right time for touching as a reward. Touching is especially pleasant for your dog when he is calm. This is preferably at home. Make sure that your dog is relaxed and receptive before you touch him. Avoid touching in stressful situations or when your dog is in pain, as it is not a reward in these cases.

  3. Combine touch with other rewards: To reinforce the effect of touch as a reward, you can combine it with other positive reinforcers, such as treats, verbal praise or toys. In this way, you teach your dog that touch is associated with pleasant experiences.

  4. Incorporate touch into training: Touch can also be used as a reward during training to reinforce desired behaviours. Touch is helpful in calm training such as blanket training, the relaxation hold and other forms of balanced situations. This helps your dog to make the connection between his behaviour and the positive experience of touch.

  5. Pay attention to your dog's body language: It is important to observe your dog's body language and signals during the touch. If he shows signs of stress or discomfort, you should stop the touch immediately. Learn to interpret your dog's signals correctly to ensure that the touch remains a positive experience for him.

  6. Give your dog control: Allow your dog to decide for himself whether he wants touch as a reward or not. If your dog seeks touch or approaches you, this is a sign that he accepts it as a reward. However, do not force your dog to touch you if he refuses or feels uncomfortable.

By following these tips and paying attention to your dog's needs and signals, you can use touch as an effective reward and strengthen your bond. Remember that patience and empathy are key to understanding your dog better and providing them with a comfortable and safe environment.

Alternatives to touch as a reward

Although touch can be an effective reward for dogs, there are situations where it may not be appropriate or desirable. In these cases, there are a number of alternatives available to you to reward your dog and encourage positive behaviour. Here are some examples:


Verbal praise

Verbal praise is a simple yet effective way to reward your dog. Using kind words and a positive tone of voice, your dog can recognise that he has done something right. Make sure that your praise immediately follows the desired behaviour so that your dog can make the connection. A simple "Well done!" or "Yes!" can already be a great reward for your dog.


Treats and food rewards

Treats and food rewards are very popular with many dogs and can be an excellent motivator to encourage desired behaviour. Choose healthy, tasty treats that are suitable for your dog and make sure to use them in bulk to avoid obesity. Keep varying the treats and make sure to leave them out regularly to avoid becoming a natural feeder for your dog. 


Toys and joint activities

Toys and joint activities can serve as rewards for your dog and strengthen your bond. They are particularly suitable if your dog has been active before, for example when recalling. Reward your dog by giving him his favourite toy or doing a joint activity such as fetch or a game of tug. This type of reward can be particularly effective if your dog has a high need for play or exercise. Remember that play should always be done in a positive, controlled way and you should stop the activity if your dog becomes overly excited or stressed.


By catering to your dog's individual needs and preferences and using different reward methods, you can create an effective and varied training environment that not only encourages desired behaviour, but also strengthens the relationship between you and your dog.


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The correct use of touch as a reward in dogs can play an important role in building a strong bond between you and your dog and encouraging desired behaviour. It is crucial to respond to your dog's individual needs and preferences to ensure that the touch is actually perceived as a reward.

Be sure to observe your dog's body language and signals and avoid touching them in stressful, active or painful situations. In such cases, there are many alternatives available to you, such as verbal praise, treats, toys or joint activities to reward and motivate your dog.

Needs-based rewards that are tailored to your dog's preferences can make training more effective and strengthen the relationship between you and your dog. By being patient and paying attention to your dog's signals, you can provide him with a positive, motivating and understandable learning environment in which he can succeed.

What signs show that my dog does not like being touched as a reward?

If your dog shows stress signals such as yawning, panting, restlessness, flinching or appeasement signals, he may not like the touch as a reward.

When should I not offer my dog touch as a reward?

Avoid touching as a reward in active or stressful situations, in the presence of other dogs or people who might upset your dog, or if your dog is in pain or uncomfortable.

What alternatives are there to touch as a reward?

Alternative rewards can be verbal praise, treats, toys or joint activities that are tailored to your dog's individual preferences and needs.

How can I find out which touches my dog prefers as a reward?

Observe your dog closely and pay attention to his reactions to different touches, such as petting, scratching or gentle massaging. The preferred touches are often accompanied by positive body language and relaxation. As a tip, you can shoot a video while rewarding your dog and analyse it calmly to better analyse your dog's body language.

How do I use touch as a reward effectively?

To use touch effectively as a reward, be sure to use your dog's favourite touches, choose the right timing, combine touch with other rewards, integrate it into training, pay attention to your dog's body language and give him the opportunity to escape touch.